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The following article was written by Lovett H. Weems Jr.* for the Lewis Center for Church Leadership.

He says a continued commitment to online worship is not a hindrance that detracts from in-person worship, but rather a vital way to reach new people and accomplish the church’s mission.

But as this new worship option continues to evolve, congregations must commit to mastering the medium by learning, seeking feedback, and continuing to improve. He writes;

I remember once hearing a pastor tell about his grandfather, the pastor of a large, prestigious congregation in a southern city when radio was in its early days. Radio stations were trying to attract listeners, so it was not uncommon for them to broadcast the Sunday services of high profile churches without cost.

When offered this opportunity, my colleague’s grandfather immediately turned it down. He thought if people could stay home and listen to the service, no one would attend in person. But things didn’t work out that way. In fact, it was the churches that accepted the offer of free radio broadcasts that grew, as more people became acquainted through the radio broadcasts with the pastor and congregation.

Chances are that virtual worship services are here to stay much as radio and television worship services remain available.

Churches today that use television or radio to share their services more broadly certainly do not see those services as taking away from their mission.

If they did, they would not pay the high cost of providing worship through those media. Similarly, churches should see virtual worship as a way to to accomplish their mission rather than seeing it as a hindrance.

Online worship beyond the pandemic 

Some churches were already offering worship online before the pandemic, but most were not. They embraced virtual worship when pandemic safeguards prevented them from gathering in person. Their early attempts at online worship were often awkward. Leaders were ill-equipped.

There were technological challenges. And most clergy and musicians had little experience in communicating effectively in this new medium. But as time went by, the services improved for most churches. As the worst of the pandemic subsided, most churches were managing their virtual worship relatively well.  

Some assumed virtual services would be unnecessary once in-person worship resumed.

But most understood that basic changes were taking place in how people live their lives and post-pandemic worship may not return to “normal.”

Online worship would be needed for those unable to attend in person for health reasons. But also, there would continue to be an audience for online worship alongside in-person, radio, and television.

The decision of whether to continue an online service was no longer just a matter of providing access to members unable to attend because of the pandemic.

Mastering the medium 

I once was pastor of a church whose services were broadcast live each Sunday on radio and television. I learned that a successful radio broadcast involved much more than merely having the signal go through. For example, we found that we had to examine the service relentlessly for “dead time,” silence that is guaranteed to cause radio listeners to change stations. And addressing those dead times actually made the in-person service far better as well.  

As we prepared to televise the services, I recorded services of other churches to study their best practices.

I also visited churches with televised worship and talked to the pastors and other leaders.

Some of the best advice I received was to make sure the production quality of the service was equal to what people expected when they watch network television. The lighting, sound, and cameras must allow people to give their full attention to the worship, rather than being distracted by production problems. 

Continuing to learn and improve 

No matter how fine your online worship experience is, you and your colleagues do not have decades of experience with online worship as you probably do with in-person worship. We must acknowledge that we are still in the early stages of developing what the online worship experience can be. Everyone is still learning.

You want to make sure that your online worship is evolving based on your experience, the experience of other churches, and especially the experience of your online worship participants. 

Devote considerable time to planning and evaluation. 

In this regard, we can learn from the best practices growing churches use in planning and evaluating all their worship services.

Growing churches tend to spend considerable time planning for worship – both long term and weekly.

They plan well ahead, and they do detailed planning for each service. They devote far more time each week than other churches do in preparing for the Sunday services. And they regularly evaluate and revise. This includes a review of each service and regular overall reviews. 

Seek feedback and input. 

Know that for the foreseeable future, as you navigate this still emerging worship medium, improving your virtual worship will require far more extensive review. Find ways to seek feedback, and review every week with one goal in mind: How can we improve what we are doing before next week? Seek feedback from those who worship online, but don’t stop there. View the services yourself, making notes for improvement. Ask others who attend in-person worship to view the online services and offer suggestions for improvement.  

Watch online services from other churches who do online worship well and ask others to watch them.

The task is always the same: We don’t need to know what we do better than they do. We must learn what they do better than we do.

Chances are you will first notice small changes you can make. However, as time goes by, pay most attention to methods other churches use to include and engage their online worshipers beyond being spectators. This learning is both the biggest challenge and greatest opportunity of this endeavor.  

Advocate for expanded internet access to those in need. 

In many parts of the country, especially rural areas, there is limited or no broadband access. There was a time when the same was true for access to electricity and telephones. If you are blessed by dependable internet connections in your area, consider advocating for expanded coverage to benefit those locales in need.

Also be aware that in areas that do have internet access, there may be households that do not have the resources to afford the access and technology needed to share in your online worship. What are ways you can advocate for and help support them as well?


For me personally, six months out of every year I will be reliant on the churches online presence to remain connected in my faith and feel as if I’m a part of the whole. As I’ll need to isolate myself from social gatherings due to my health conditions.

Unfortunately, I know that I am not the only one that is having to face this.

Rare diseases and disorders are becoming more prevalent in our world with more than 6,000 being identified.

With the myriad of pathogens and viruses circulating in our world today they’ll continue to wreak havoc on people’s lives and within their families. So any opportunity to influence and grow the online presence today is very much appreciated by those who have to face a new norm in our ever-changing world.

Social isolation and loneliness is becoming more and more prevalent in our communities, and the church has an opportunity to break the mold and return to truly caring for its people and connecting with them in a way that hasn’t necessarily happened in the past few years or so – through embracing and improving its online worship and presence.    

Blessings ’til next time 🙂      

 

* Lovett H. Weems Jr. is senior consultant at the Lewis Center for Church Leadership, distinguished professor of church leadership emeritus at Wesley Theological Seminary, and author of several books on leadership.

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Mental Health Awareness Week (MHAW) commences on Monday 21 September and this year reflects the challenges we’ve all had to face together within New Zealand and around the world in 2020.

This year’s theme, He Tirohanga Anamata – Reimagine Wellbeing Together, encourages New Zealanders to reflect on the big and small actions they have taken to take care of each other this year, and to look at wellbeing through a new lens.

Mental Health Foundation (MHF) chief executive Shaun Robinson wants “New Zealanders to reimagine what wellbeing looks and feels like, and believe that wellbeing is possible for everyone.” He acknowledges a level change announcement is due next week, which may bring up feelings of unease, but says he’s proud of how New Zealanders “have rallied together and tackled the challenges of shifting through different levels”.

“Our new normal is quite different. The way we work, go to school and kura, and connect with friends and whānau have all changed this year – so if you’re feeling off balance right now, know that it’s completely normal to feel that way.

“Mental Health Awareness Week is a timely reminder of how important it is to embrace the simple things we can do each day to really help strengthen our wellbeing – that’s what will help us during the tough times.”

Throughout the coming week, each day has a particular focus inspired by Te Whare Tapa Whā, which is a model of the 4 dimensions of well-being incorporating; our taha wairua (spiritual health), taha tinana (physical health), taha hinengaro (emotional and mental health), taha whānau (family and friends).

“When all these things are in balance, including the whenua (land, foundation and nature) we thrive. When one or more of these is out of balance, our wellbeing is impacted,” says Thomas Strickland, Kaiwhakarite Māori Development Specialist, MHF.

The daily MHAW themes are:

Monday 21 September: Whānau

Recharge with others / Whiria te muka tangata

Tuesday 22 September: Wairua

Rediscover everyday wonder / Whāia ngā mīharotanga o ia rā

Wednesday 23 September: Whenua

Return to nature / Hono ki te taiao

Thursday 24 September: Tinana

Refuel your body / Whakamarohi i tō tinana

Friday 25 September: Hinengaro

Refresh your mind / Whāngaia tō hinengaro

We all face challenges to our mental wellbeing but there is a way through and if this year has taught us anything life can suck, as it at times really throws us a curveball. When we are anxious or depressed it can change the way we think, feel and act.

Dealing with the tough times that come our way can be hard but we are not alone. We can each take a small step by getting ideas or support on how to take care of ourselves and others, and in these days of uncertainty where we see the world as we know it disrupted by a microscopic virus we may just need the support and help from others.

For we are to “speak encouraging words to one another. Build up hope so we’ll all be together in this, no one left out, no one left behind” 1 Thessalonians 5:11 (The Message).

This is what it means to be Christ-like, living a Christian lifestyle building up, encouraging, and showing others love and kindness.

The Covid-19 pandemic has increased levels of anxiety, loneliness, depression and concern (at least initially) for all people, and how we can collectively get through!

It has had an effect on everyone far and wide, and none more so than those that already struggled with fitting in, or feeling alone in this world, even though they may have been physically present in activities, events, programmes, ministries, jobs etc. they continued to feel as if they were on the outside looking in.

One common description of loneliness is the feeling we get when our need for rewarding social contact and relationships is not met. But loneliness is not always the same as being alone. And with the restrictions on social distancing, gathering in groups, and going about our everyday lives these feelings have been further compounded.

So, we need each other more than ever and in some regards this is something that we as a community of believers need to bear in mind as we return to normal, if we can ever do such a thing. Because our ‘new’ normal is quite possibly going to look very different to what we have become accustomed too.

Maybe that is a good thing!

Therefore, if you are a part of the Wellington City Corps and know of someone who is in need of some help, or just needs someone to talk too – get hold of our Fellowship Coordinator who can put you in touch with a Geographical Pastoral Care Coordinator in your area.

If you have stumbled across this post / site and want to know more about how you can become a part of our wider Corps family, or if you’re just reaching out and need someone to connect with – you can contact me here.

If you, or someone you know is concerned about your Mental Health, or theirs – you can also check out the information available from the Mental Health Foundation here, or at other sites such as Depression.org.nzThe Lowdown, I Am Hope and the Key to Life Charitable Trust to name just a few.

Many blessings 🙂

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Today’s Word of Encouragement comes from Leslie Brandt’s Psalms/Now, which is a collection of prayers and meditations on all 150 Psalms of the Old Testament.

“Like the ancient songs, these contemporary restatements affirm God’s constant care: I am lonely, O God, but I am not alone. You are here in the city.

In these days of isolation due to the ongoing effects of the Covid-19 pandemic, which is affecting our world and has many countries in varying degrees of lock-down. These words are often an encouragement to me and a source of inspiration, may that be the case for you today too.

I feel like singing this morning, O Lord. I feel like telling everyone how great You are. If only they could know the depths of Your love and Your eternal concern for those who will follow You!

But my songs are so often off-key. My speech is so inadequate. I simply cannot express what I feel, what I know to be true about Your love for Your creatures upon this world.

But even the songs of the birds proclaim Your praises. The heavens and the earth beneath them, the trees that reach towards You, the flowers that glow in colourful beauty, the green hills and soaring mountains, the valleys and the plains, the lakes and the rivers, the great oceans that pound our shores – they proclaim Your greatness, O God, and Your love for the sons and daughters of men.

How glorious it is to be alive, O Lord! May every breath of my body, and every beat of my heart, be dedicated to Your praise and glory.

 

Many studies and reports are being done on the psychological effect that the covid-19 pandemic is having on people’s mental health. Early indications are that they are having a major effect with regards to people’s sense of loneliness, which in some countries and cities around the world was already a ‘silent killer’ that was often under reported, due to the frequent coexistence of loneliness with depression.

So may I encourage you to reach out to someone in your community who may feel lonely at this time due to the social-distancing requirements to keep us all safe and secure in our “bubbles”.

Remind them that they are not alone and that God is here for them – Just as He is there for you too!

Also, may the following links to songs/music uplift you today as you listen and/or sing your hearts out as if no-one is watching:

How Great is Our God – Chris Tomlin

How Great Thou Art – Thundersley Brass Band

Psalm 89 – The “Restoration” project

I Could Sing of Your Love Forever – Maranatha! Music

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